Why I feel so strongly opposed against putting shoes on, even for a store 'policy'.
There's two sides to this. On the one hand, why I prefer not to wear them, and on the other hand, why I think it is wrong to give in to an arbitrary and discriminatory rule. Both sides are important in their own way.
1)
Most people do not use
their sense of touch as much as our senses of hearing, sight,
or even taste. But now that I have experienced it, and become
used to this enrichment of actually using all my senses, I
feel it as a great loss to limit this again. I often compare
it to having to wear extremely dark glasses that take all the
color out of life, or wearing ear plugs that muffle all sound.
Feeling the ground beneath me, no matter if it's smooth or
rough, wet or dry, cold or warm, is a very important part of
my life. I enjoy a patch of rough gravel, a patch of soft
grass, or the cool tiles in a store, in a similar manner as
I enjoy seeing a pretty bird or flower, hearing nice music.
We wouldn't ask people to shut off or severely limit their
other senses, would we??
2)
It also gives me a spiritual 'connectivety' with Earth. I'm
not a member of a church which requires going barefoot, but
I am exploring several nature-based religions and beliefs
(wicca/pagan, Native Indian beliefs, ancient shamanism/animism)
and feeling the Earth under my feet is very important to me in
that context, too. While when I wear shoes, I feel as if I have
some kind of rigid, unpleasant, confining barrier between me
and Earth. I know, whenever I'm inside I'm not standing directly
'on the Earth' either, and even outside there's asphalt,
sidewalk tiles, etc. But the shoes just feel far more
'spiritually confining' than simply walking barefoot on a
man-made surface. I am not a priestess, shaman, Elder or
anything, and I can't explain exactly why, nor make you 'feel'
this experience, but I simply and honestly describe the strong
religious/spiritual significance barefooting has for me.
3)
It's very healthy. While I've never believed those who say going barefoot
gross or dangerous, health wasn't one of the reasons why I started going barefoot
all those years ago. But my health has greatly improved since I shed my shoes.
While I used to have a chronic cough and was sniffling every year from early fall until
late spring, after I started going barefoot the winter went by without any of that... and
then another winter... and another, and another... when I write this it's been fourteen
years and I had to call in sick once (for two days), and even a cough or runny nose is
rare. I didn't make other lifestyle changes at that time.
Okay, wearing flipflops for a few minutes while visiting a store isn't likely
to do away with this, but it's sure been a great benefit for me!
There are several reasons given for these rules: health laws, safety, the risk of people suing the store if they do get an injury, because people don't like seeing bare feet, etc, etc. In my opinion, however, these anti-barefoot policies are arbitrary and discriminatory. For all of the above reasons I can either tell you they're just plain not true, or give you a situation or type of shoe where the same (or more!) risk applies, but the bare feet are singled out to be banned. Here it goes, point by point.
1) Health laws.
There aren't any. The 'Shoes required by
State Law' is a myth, a hoax. A very wide-spread myth, but
a myth nonetheless. See also
http://www.barefooters.org/health-codes-and-osha/.
The health department apparently does not find bare feet a
big enough health risk to ban them, even in places where food
is served. And why would serving food make a difference? We
don't put our feet on the table any more than other people put
their (shod) feet up there, and germs aren't any more likely to
magically jump onto the food from a bare sole than from a shoe-sole.
If it's not 'street dirt' but 'foot germs' you're worried about,
please explain how a strap from a sandal or flipflop provides
any kind of barrier a germ couldn't cross. This isn't 'contact
germs' -as I said, I don't put my foot on the table, and most
people don't put their food on the floor. Also, the few times when we
step in something really gross, like dog poo (it's happened to almost
everyone at some point or other), we notice and can wipe/wash it off
before entering your store. Someone who is shod might notice, or they might
not, tracking it in instead.
2) Safety.
I)
Bare feet aren't nearly as dangerous as many people
think. Feet aren't naturally weak, soft things that have to be
constantly protected. They become weak and soft when they are
constantly protected. A barefooter's foot is tough and does not
immediately cut open from a piece of glass on the floor. The
dangers of glass aren't as big anyhow, even for more tender
feet. Something cuts when you slide along it. A piece of glass,
laying flat on the ground, will lay with its edge pretty much
flat, and if you step on it from the top and step off it again,
you won't slide along its cutting edge. Try it with a knife
in the kitchen, (on your thumb if you're careful, next time you got a
cut of meat if you want to play it safe) you can press pretty hard straight
down on the edge without cutting yourself. Even small splinters
abide the law of gravity and will usually lay flat on the floor.
Large pieces that stick up (like a whole bottom of a bottle)
are very easily seen. The most trouble give small splinters on
an uneven floor, so they may be propped up against something
and stick up enough to pierce a sole. Now, even this is a) not
a common occurrence and b) a very slight injury, usually not even
penetrating the leathery callouses, or at most requiring a
band-aid.
II)
Many types of footwear can, under certain circumstances,
be at least as dangerous as bare feet, or more so. High heels,
platform shoes, and dress shoes with leather soles can easily
slip on the slick, tile floors many stores have, especially
when there's some water or other liquid on the floor. You can trip
with flip-flops or other loose slippers or sandals. Yet those
are not banned. There's warnings, yes, but anyone who wants
to come into a store with leather soles on a rainy day, can.
Believe me, I own several pairs of shoes that are far more
dangerous in those circumstances than my bare feet under the
same conditions!
3) Risk of injured people suing the store.
I)
First of all, the risk isn't that great, and if something
happens, it's extremely unlikely to be a serious injury. No
injury I've had, or heard about in many years of reading the
Barefooters mailing list, was anywhere near as serious or as
disabling as, for example, a nasty twisted ankle would be
-something that could easily result from a dress shoe on a
wet tile floor. No one would sue a store over a scratch
requiring a band-aid, and if they did they'd be laughed
out of court.
II)
Second, even in the US, the law doesn't award huge
damages to every frivolous lawsuit. I'm not that good at
legal language, but basically, if you walk into a store
barefoot, you accept the risk, and if anyone were to
try suing the store over it, any decent judge would throw it out.
III)
Third, while there's usually an exception to every
generalization and I can't guarantee no barefooter will
ever try to sue for an injury, on the whole, barefooters
are very responsible people. In the time I've been a
barefooter, and been active on the Internet, in a group
of 1000+ barefooters, no one has considered
suing any store over an injury. Actually, when it comes
up -not because of an actual case, as I said those are
very rare and never big enough to even consider suing, but
because a store owner or other person is concerned- everyone
is extremely opposed to suing a store. The general consensus
is that those sue-happy people are one of the important
reasons our freedom to go barefoot is being limited in
the first place. And think about it, a person who would be
looking for an opportunity to sue would not be likely to go
barefoot. If he gave it any thought at all, he'd realise being
barefoot would severely hurt his chances to win. Slick soled
shoes, to name something, would be a much better bet. Yet we
barefooters get told to put on some shoes. We're even
allowed to put on shoes with slick soles. On a rainy day,
when the floor is likely to be wet in places.
4) 'Bare feet are gross'.
That is, of course, your right
to believe. But is it enough to ban people for? Some people
think tattoos are gross, can they ban people sporting
tattoos from their store? I personally don't like the 'wet look'.
Hair with gel in it like that don't look wet to me, it looks greasy.
Certainly unappetising. And that is on eye level! But I would never,
ever suggest anyone who likes to wear his hair that way should not
be allowed into a restaurant or store, just because I don't like
it. It's his hair, and it doesn't hurt anyone. Other people are vehemently
opposed to homosexuality. Yet it'd never be allowed to
ban homosexuals from a grocery store, you couldn't even
tell them to come 'undercover' and ban things like pink
triangles, or ban homosexual couples coming in together
holding hands or calling each other 'honey' or 'love' or
whatever where other people can overhear. There are laws
against discrimination.
Those are some of the main reasons refuted; if there's any more reasons you come up with, feel free to mail them to me.
Now, after I've shown why I think the reasons given for these policies don't hold water, I'm left to explain why I think it's wrong to simply comply with these policies anyhow.
1) Since there is no real law, the myth is limiting our
barefoot freedom more than necessary.
The fact that signs
with this mistaken information get printed and put up by large,
respectable companies causes other people to believe them.
Thus, there are many stores and restaurants where the owners
could care less, or in a few cases even like being barefoot
themselves, but because they believe there is a State Health
law they enforce this fake law and ask people to wear
shoes. Often they even help spread the myth by putting up their
own sign. Unnecessary and plain sad for those of us for
whom being barefoot is important. Because of this myth, we
are being asked to wear shoes even in places where NO ONE -store owner, law,
or anyone at all- does in fact care if we do or not.
2) Is this really important? It's only shoes!
True, there's plenty of other important things out there. Many
more important things even. But does that mean smaller issues
are *not* important? Remember there was a time when women couldn't
wear pants, when people couldn't go out in the streets without
a hat... Freedom and liberty don't come only in big packages.
I have a hard time imagining a society without war, with equal
rights for all races, but yet men have to put on a hat when
going outdoors and women get ridiculed when wearing jeans. The
fact that I am setting up and maintaining this site does not
mean I'm not interested in 'big' issues. It doesn't mean I will
turn my back when Amnesty International or UNICEF comes asking
for signatures, letter writers, money or volunteers. It does
mean I *also* do this. We can't change everything at the same
time. We can't all fight in every battle on Earth. I do my
little bit, you do your little bit, we can even be active in
more than one organization or be a member of more than one
group at the same time. I believe freedom is important on all
levels of life.
3) When a policy is an arbitrary policy, it's discrimination.
It doesn't matter if it's discrimination against race,
religion, sexual preference or choice of footwear.
Whenever that is brought up, some people get upset that
I compare bare feet with being another race. After all,
someone born a certain race has no choice, but going
barefoot is a choice I make and I should take the
consequences. I really, really feel uncomfortable with
that statement. It implies that if people *can* change
something about themselves to conform, they should. Take
that statement and look at it again. I can change my
choice of footwear, so if I want to avoid the trouble
it causes, I should simply put aside my principles and
preferences and 'conform'. Question to anyone making
this remark or supporting it: if a black person *could*
change their color, would it be okay to ask them to do so before entering
a store???
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